The worst part is that there are problems with yaoi fetishing all gay relationships not only into seme/uke bullshit filled with horrible stereotypes and absolutely no concept of what actual sex is like, but also leading to actual gay couples being turned into fetish porn or the horrors of real life shipping. That's not even getting into crazy shit like the people who were crying when Russia outlawed homosexuals because they were worried about the main characters of Yuri On Ice.
But no, the author abandons those actual issues and goes straight into eww gays are gross. They were so close.
On that note, I have met a few yaoi fans in my life who were fiercely anti-gay rights but oh man loved it when a big anime dude raped a small child like anime guy out if love.