Yeah it's surprisingly hard getting good comment threads on r/relationships, because like 98% of the posts are sane and reasonable people who have somehow managed to continue posting on reddit.
Fortunately, there's always that 2% where someone's Spidey Sense went off and they said, "Wait! Someone is covering my area of interest! THE INTERNET NEEDS MY TERRIBLE OPINIONS!"
And, y'know, all the beautiful, beautiful OPs with their baffling problems.