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Topic: I'm drunk and have things to say. *hiccup*  (Read 98478 times)

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ALSO I HAVE MOVED TO THE USA.  Next fplus live I will divorce my husband if we don’t go
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I have not had a mixed drink for a long time

Mixed drinks are good
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Y'all I drunk tweeted the fplus a bunch the other day, I am embarrassing. Also. Indiana is a stupid state.
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over the past month I have been streaming movies to my friends over discord and it is so much fun. I'm the only one who has access to this many streaming services through family stuff, and it rocks to enjoy all of this with my favorite people.
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I wish i was confident enough to admit that i wish i was a man. like how as 15/16 year old me okay enoguh with considering that i might be trans but 22 yo me isnt? like wtf? im afriad and im just gonna pretend im okay and im a woman. fuck i don't have to transition i can be a woman. shut up brain.

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I just want to be okay with myself. Why was teenage me confident enought to in real life be like "hey call me he/him and male name" and then I stopped that went I went to college. I ghosted all's my old friends. Im now dating this guy who is amazing but I don't think we'd be dating if I had already pushed to be trans. And idk I have a good job making 68k per year. Like I'm doing OKAY. but I hate myself. I hate how I didnt do what I wanted to. I used to be like as soon as I move out I'm gonna be myself but I didn't. And now drunk me just goes online and is like "what if I was male"

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I like drinking but I'm afraid of becoming an alcoholic cause all 4 of my grandparents were alcoholics. Which is why neither of my parents drink all too much. I'm also a light weight which idk if that helps or hurts me. I want to keep up with my friends in number of drinks but just end up druk when they aren't drunk yet.

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I just want to talk to other people 2ho are also drunk? Why isn't there like Twitter for drunk people?

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I like drinking but I'm afraid of becoming an alcoholic cause all 4 of my grandparents were alcoholics. Which is why neither of my parents drink all too much. I'm also a light weight which idk if that helps or hurts me. I want to keep up with my friends in number of drinks but just end up druk when they aren't drunk yet.
thelizzerd, May 16, 2021, 06:05:00 pm

So I can at least speak a little to the alcoholism thing, as a lot of people in my family are, and my dad is a shit head alcoholic. So there are people who can drink every day and live normal lives, and those who can drink very infrequently and be fucked up, so I'm not going to focus on amount.

Like all mental illnesses, it becomes a problem when it affects aspects of your life: are you still talking with friends, getting out to do things, getting to work and through the day okay? Can you go a day without and not feel bad? A big thing for me was drawing a line, so if I did those things, I was cutting myself off. The biggest was lashing out and hurting the ones I loved, but included small things like did I do it to feel better/self-medicate, was I drinking alone more often than not, was it making my depression worse. Find those lines and write them down, or tell a very VERY trusted friend. If you cross them multiple times, and find yourself moving goalposts, that's when you know things are getting bad.

The best suggestion I can offer right now is go a month only drinking with friends (virtually or in person), and see if you can hold off. Plus it's just more fun to get drunk with others. If you're the lightweight, you can drink lighter beers, alternate between water and alcohol, or as my pro drinking friend pointed out, just never stop eating.

Good luck friend!
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