To me, one of the weirdest things about the internet is how hard it is to determine someone's age. Like, imagine living in a world where everyone looks like an adult and is treated like an adult, except that some people are secretly two middle schoolers in a trench coat, and most of the time nobody can tell the difference because a lot of the real adults act like middle schoolers anyway. That's kind of how it is. Someone could be a gross, shitty 40-year-old man talking about their very real divorce on Gaia Online, or they could be 14 years old and making it all up. You can make a pretty good guess as to which it is, but you'll never know for sure.